My opinion on dating

I didn't ever used to have this perspective on dating, because frankly I didn't know, and was immature. I think now that I have more of a drive in me, I will accomplish what I believe in. My opinion on dating is simple, I don't like dating. Dating is for people who don't know what they like and don't like in a guy or girl, but if you already know who you are, then wouldn't you have to trust that whoever the right guy or girl is for you out there is perfect for you, and destined, so wouldn't at some point the two of you meet anyway? I dated, and had a lot of boyfriends, but none could fulfill what I already wanted at an early age, and I don't even know why I gave some guys the chance to begin with, but I thought it would be good experience for me. What I came to realize now is that, for me that is not the case, dating is not going to get me anywhere. I need to save my emotional energy into healthier time for God. I think some religions that tell you you can't date, that is preposterous because I don't think they really get it, I think like for me, it is something that has to come from the heart, to trust in God, and know that He has someone out there for you, and I had to make a commitment to stay pure for him, because I know my future husband would appreciate me being forever devoted to him, which means my whole life, which means even the times I have before I even meet him. I would hope the same from him. I may make mistakes, and wonder why the heck am I not dating, but I know in my heart it's just not for me. I try to treat guys around me like my brothers, and not to give into sexual curiosity, because at some point I will be swept off my feet by my perfect man.